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well, apparantly, my last big post scared some people off, as i lost about 5 people off of my friends list, some that i had considered good friends. i'm sorry that if you felt that it may have been begging for attention. on the contrary, i just wanted to get it off my chest, and now that i HAVE, it lies in the past and shall remain there, so that i can begin my life anew and move forward, and the healing begun.

on the other hand, girls, BE CAREFUL regarding taking drinks from anyone or leaving your drink unattended. which, i guess, goes without saying.

and that is all that will be said on the matter.

The End.


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Mar. 1st, 2003 02:30 pm (UTC)
Aubrey, I can't believe anyone would be heartless enough to remove you after a post like that. Real friends are there when we need each other..
It's so painful when you find out people aren't as good friends as you think they are, I completely sympathize and hope you never hold back your feelings just because of what fair weather friends might do..
Mar. 1st, 2003 02:39 pm (UTC)
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What you said. Yes.
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Mar. 1st, 2003 02:42 pm (UTC)
i had thought that, too... but did a bit o... research.. so to speak... and found it wasn't true.


whatever, i say.
Mar. 1st, 2003 02:41 pm (UTC)
you're better off without them then

i just read your post..

*big hug*

makes me wonder if there are many others that would step out and say yeah, it happened to me too...because then maybe he could be stopped through the help of authorities..
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:35 pm (UTC)
thanks, hun!!
Mar. 1st, 2003 02:52 pm (UTC)
Not that we talk all that much, me and you. But I can only think that you would be better off without them. I plan on keeping you on my list for a while longer. :)

Okay then. {{{hugs}}}
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:37 pm (UTC)
good. i'm glad you stayed :)
Mar. 1st, 2003 04:33 pm (UTC)

Didn't scare mister Adam away. Adam just didn't know what to say.
He's gonna stop talking about himself in third person any minute.
Okay, there I go.
So yeah, if posting stuff about what's going on in your mind runs people off, then good. It's your journal. No point in having it if you can't write your feelings in it.
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:40 pm (UTC)
i'm glad. i'd hate to lose you, too :)

and that's my thought on the matter, too. it's my journal.
Mar. 1st, 2003 04:33 pm (UTC)
I've lost friends because I came forward about what happened to me. In fact, I told someone on AOL and now I can't sign on without being harassed and called a "liar." Not to mention that they send out my picture, have it up on websites and tell the world that I lied about being raped. Gee, don't feel the least bit in danger now... :(

All I really have to say though is good for you, for moving on. Let the selfish pricks burn in Hell for accusing you of wanting attention or lying. God knows that's where they belong if they truly feel as they claim. :( Anyway.....for me the wound of being harassed and called a liar is very fresh....and it opens up the wound from assault with it. Lucky me...

Hang in there though. You're a tough one.
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:41 pm (UTC)
i'm so sorry that you had to go through what you did. as if the subject isn't touchy enough or traumatizing enough as it is, without people not believing you. some of my friends in real life didn't believe me, either, which made me very nervous about posting here.

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Mar. 1st, 2003 06:56 pm (UTC)
I agree with talkingpotato and nothinganything.

I wish I could help - just know that you do have friends who love you!
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:42 pm (UTC)
thanks, hun
Mar. 1st, 2003 07:42 pm (UTC)
didn't lose me! :)
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:43 pm (UTC)
for which i'm thankful for :)
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Mar. 1st, 2003 08:20 pm (UTC)
I can't believe that people dropped you from their friends' list just because you revealed something that was actually IMPORTANT. In comparison to the drivel that they were prolly posting.

How could anybody not love the Aubkabob? :(

Mar. 6th, 2003 08:44 pm (UTC)

and i hope everything has been okay with you, too. you've been in my thoughts a lot lately.
Mar. 1st, 2003 08:28 pm (UTC)
oh :( it is sad to see people like that. meanwhile all i can offer is understanding, a smile and my ears/eyes.

guys should also be careful y'know. at the big day out after party in sydney (that was actually before the big day out - go figure) my friend who's a singer in a band that played at another big day out, was given a drink by some chick with short hair. which was stupid cos the drinks there were free anyway.

he accepted it and minutes later he just lost his legs and everything else. luckily we were there... he reckons it felt like he was doped with morphine. he was a mess...
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:45 pm (UTC)
something like that happened to my brother, too, about a year or so ago, but w/o the... sex.. part.

it's sad you can't go out and have a good time without being paranoid.
Mar. 1st, 2003 09:47 pm (UTC)
You will never get rid of me!! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:45 pm (UTC)
thank goodness for that!
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Mar. 1st, 2003 09:49 pm (UTC)
Damn, it's hard to believe people would do that. I had actually typed out a semi-long reply to that post, but LJ was being a bitch when I clicked send, and it got lost :( I doubt it was much different from what anyone else said...my main point was that people are more likely to be silent about those types of things when the situation isn't cut n'dry classifiable. I've been there...and when you're not even sure yourself, its that much harder to feel like you can tell someone else.

Sorry that people have to be such idiots...

See you soon, babe!
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:47 pm (UTC)

but i'm glad that the whole thing is past, and now i can BEGIN to feel comfortable having crushes again, somewhat.

there's just the weirdness, like, do i tell him? what if we begin to get intimate, and i freak out? what if what if what if...
Mar. 1st, 2003 10:24 pm (UTC)
since lots of folks are piping in and saying hello on this one and I hadn't on the last one because I feel saying anything in posts such as those will feel like I'm placating, I'm just piping and say hey Aubs.

I'm still waiting for you to get your shit together and you and the rest of the band get THEIR shit together and you can go on tour... damn it... T-O-U-R!
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:49 pm (UTC)
thanks, love!!!

and hopefully, we'll have our shite together soonly and be able to become the rich and famous rockstars that we were meant to be!!!

or, uh.. something...
Mar. 1st, 2003 11:10 pm (UTC)
I'm still here, even though I got tarred and feathered, but it's all good. I'm sorry if my comments came off as something bad or whatever, but you know, I'll say this: it took a hell of a lot of courage for you to write that confessional thing.

I'm glad to hear you feel all better after that...

horns up!
Mar. 6th, 2003 08:50 pm (UTC)
i appreciate that, hun!!!
Mar. 2nd, 2003 12:45 am (UTC)
Unfortunately some people are fair-weather friends (even virtual ones.) It took a lot of courage for you to share your painful experience and if some people can't handle that, well, I say f*ck them. Sounds a tad harsh, I know... but it's not.
Mar. 10th, 2003 10:56 am (UTC)
i felt harsh posting about it. i was going to make it friends only post, but screw that. why be irritable behind their backs?!?


thanks, hun. i appreciate your support in all this! *hugs*
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