know that you're on my mind. i never ever know what to say in circumstances such as these, i have never been good with words. know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers, for what it's worth and as trite as it sounds. i wish i could make things different, make things better. my heart bleeds for what you are going through, though as i've never been through the same exact thing, i could never "understand" your pain. i can only offer to be here to make things easier. know that i'm mentally sending the biggest freaking mental hug ever created in your direction and wish it could be more, offer more comfort.