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this post has been un-sugar coated.

yes, i hath returned. i couldn't completely delete my journal, anyway, although i became so unenamored with things in livejournal and my circle of 'friends' that i had to do .. SOMETHING. and since i couldn't even stand to look at aubkabob any longer, i deleted it.

what triggered it, you ask? (i knew you would.) basically, after working 50-60 hours a week over the holidays, getting little to no sleep, and stressing out over going back to school after a 12 year absence, things were a bit strenuous. you will remember, too, that i was working so much that i even pulled an almost 24 hour shift, getting little sleep, and going in for another however many hours. i put in over 40 hours within 3 1/2 days at one job, neveryoumind how many i put in at the other job, too.

shortly after my last post on the first, some of you had the GALL to tell me i was an awful friend because i hadn't been reading your journal, or responding to posts or responses. one person occasionally, i could understand, but suddenly many of you were coming out of the woodwork to tell me what a horrible person i was because i wasn't stopping in my busy REAL life in order to pet and pamper your egos.

you know what? i have a life. granted, my life isn't overly exciting, but it is a LIFE. i do adore my online friends greatly. i feel closer to some of you than i do to most people IN this real life i lead. however, the way i tend to my journal... remember. it is MY journal. i have stated several times that even in good, slow times, i can tend to take up to six months to respond to things. if you don't like it? there's the door. i will not be offended if you delete me because you feel that we don't have enough interaction. i WILL, however, be offended if you decide to attack ME.

i'm certain that things will certainly change now that i am in school, too. last week, i worked 42 hours from 330 pm to late night, as WELL as went to school from 7 am until noon, EVERY DAY. my life is now consisting of only work and school and very little sleep. i'm certain that the topic of my posts will change, too, as i have realized that i actually REALLY like this school thing, and thusly will be blabbering about it quite extensively. if you don't like it? again, defriend me, and no offense will be taken.

this post may seem harsh, and for that, i do NOT apologize. this is also not geared towards one person, but towards all of you. if you do not like me and how i keep my journal or deal with my responses, this is your easy way out. i have zero time or emotions to devote to pampering your asses. if you are willing to take me as i am, good and the bad, and are able to have civilized conversations, by all means, feel free to stay.

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wallbrat
Jan. 10th, 2006 06:01 am (UTC)
Hello Pot, my name is Kettle?? Lets review, shall we?


This is her journal. She can say what she wants to here. Deal with it.


You started this drama trip by not knowing when to shut up and take your lumps. If you want to blame someone then I suggest that you go look in the mirror.

Aubrey is being very, very, very, very, did I say very? nice to you. I'd have fired back, blocked you and reported you to LJ for abuse.

You're the one that's not a good friend. Keep your current attitudes up and you won't have many friends left. You have to be a good friend to have good friends.
frosty_pickle
Jan. 10th, 2006 06:10 am (UTC)
Fuck you.
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wallbrat
Jan. 11th, 2006 11:06 am (UTC)
Re: sorry but i just had to comment...
ummm....hon? Why are you insulting pickles?

*ducks*
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wallbrat
Jan. 11th, 2006 11:28 am (UTC)
Re: sorry but i just had to comment...
*barely avoids spewing coffee across his desk*

I think you did a great job. My attitude is pick on my friend in public and you get what you deserve.

Hey now! I like dingbats, being one myself sometimes. All dingbats should visit the Pacific Northwest, at least once. Preferably when I'm off work. *chuckles*
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wallbrat
Jan. 11th, 2006 11:43 am (UTC)
Re: sorry but i just had to comment...
Oh. I see. When I asked about why you were picking on pickles I was talking about the food. *grins*

When should you book your flight? How does yesterday sound?

Laugh attacks are contagious then. *falls over laughing too*

*picks himself up and heads off to bed, tripping over cats along the way*
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wallbrat
Jan. 11th, 2006 11:50 am (UTC)
Re: sorry but i just had to comment...
Sweet dreams. :)

*trips over a cat, landing face first on the floor*

Why thank you, Lucifer. I hadn't looked at the floor lately.

Damned furball. *heads off to bed, carefully, while grumbling*
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wallbrat
Jan. 11th, 2006 11:30 am (UTC)
Re: sorry but i just had to comment...
Sure it was. Remember the whole picking on friends in public thing?
wallbrat
Jan. 11th, 2006 11:05 am (UTC)
I'm impressed. You managed to prove my points beautifully and with only two words. I've got two words for you as well.

Grow up.

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