hrm... does this mean that the wench i got written up will get her write up today and find out that her lipping off to me (and behind my back to uninvolved coworkers) will get her in trouble?:

What's bugging you all of the sudden? It seems as if a chip has
materialized on your shoulder or you have a huge mental block. These
conditions make it clear that you still have a lot to work through.
Relax your rigid standards as a first step toward tolerance. If you
expect other people to be as accomplished at this as you are, you're
going to be disappointed. In situations like this, all you can do is
keep an open mind and hope for the best.